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And it came to pass… (an Advent poem)

Every year, I try my hand at poetry as a Christmas gift to the body of Shades Valley Community Church. This Advent season, we’ve been reflecting on the strangeness of God’s faithfulness in how he brings his promises to pass in unexpected ways. The poem below is my attempt at expressing the truths we’ve seen in a way that leads us to see and celebrate the strangeness of God’s faithfulness in our own lives.

Merry Christmas, 
Pastor Jonathan


And it came to pass…

And it came to pass 
Cesar gave a decree,
yet devoid of power,
in reality empty.

For Caesar’s heart was a river 
in God’s hands, 
Turned where he willed,
according to plan.

And that plan was to keep
promises made.
That plan was a Christ
coming to save.

But the promise was kept
in the strangest of ways.
God’s sovereign power
in a manger was laid.

The savior was swaddled
and rocked by his mom.
The almighty looked weak,
anything but strong.

But that’s how God works,
his faithfulness strange,
yet it is unfailing
day after day.

Whether sovereignty swaddled
or Christ crucified,
his word comes to pass
every time.

So when you look at your life
and he’s hard to see…
when evil overshadows
the light of his glory…

When the world makes you doubt
if he really is faithful…
remember sovereignty 
once laid in a cradle.

And remember the cross…
the place we confess
that what looked like failure
was faithfulness.

So when life is hard,
or when we breath our last…
may we cling to his promises…
they shall come to pass.

Here I Raise My Ebenezer

*On Sunday, at our annual SVCC family meeting, I briefly reflected on 2023. Below are the thoughts I shared in the form of a letter.

My Dearest Shades Valley,

When I look back over 2023, the first word that comes to mind is “milestone.” Whether I’m thinking about my life personally or our community, it feels like a year of milestones. Then again, the more I think about it, the more that word transforms into something a bit more biblical. You see, milestones tend to mark significant events of achievement. They are things we have accomplished, endured, or completed. And, while it is not wrong to celebrate such things, I feel like the Bible provides a better word to describe what I see when I look back at last year, namely, “Ebenezer.”

That word comes from 1 Samuel 7. The prophet Samuel wanted to commemorate the Lord’s victory over Israel’s enemy so the people would not forget God’s faithful help. So, Samuel set up a stone and called it “Ebenezer,” which means “stone of help.” This is not the only place in scripture such stones were used as reminders of God’s faithfulness… of what he has achieved…  and that’s what I think of when I look back at 2023.

Personally, the Haefs’ house started raising Ebenezer’s in January when Charis turned 16. That moment just felt like a marker of the Lord’s faithfulness to our family. And we felt it again last May when Talitha turned 10, then again in July when Solomon turned 5, and I felt it most personally in October when I turned 40. 

Significant birthdays weren’t the only thing that helped my family feel God’s faithfulness last year. We also felt it through anniversaries. Holly’s parents and my parents both celebrated 50 years of marriage, and just last week, Holly and I celebrated 20. I mention all these dates because more than milestones, they feel like Ebenezers… testimonies to God’s faithfulness, monumental moments that help me remember who he is, and that we are his.

I believe these Ebenezer moments were not just a reality for me personally, but also for us as Shades Valley. While there are countless ways the Lord displayed his faithfulness last year, I will simply mention three: our finances, our staff, and our body.

After sitting through our annual meeting, you probably don’t want to hear any more about our finances, but indulge me for a moment. Shades, last year we installed new parking lot lighting for the neighborhood, paid off school-lunch and after-school-care balances for needy families in the community, and replaced our old facility’s two largest A/C units. All of that totaled about $85,000, and not a dime of it came out of our budget! What kind of crazy provision is that? Can the Lord’s faithfulness be denied as he has worked through wise people to provide for our needs and those of the community through the parking lot and the Joseph fund? Add to that, the fact that we continue to miraculously make budget each year, which I know involves each of you sacrificing, and I stand in awe of God’s work in you to make you such a sacrificially generous people. And, along with each of you, I cannot wait for the day when this building is paid off in July of 2028! I am confident the Lord’s faithfulness will see us to and through that day, for don’t you see his faithfulness reflected in our finances?

Not only there, but have you seen the Ebenezer that is our staff? They are a stone of testimony to the faithfulness of the Lord, and I wish I could talk about each of them individually, so please forgive me for only highlighting three. First, there’s Joely, whom the Lord provided at just the right time to take the lead in our children’s ministry. She steps into a long legacy of faithful women who have served in this capacity at Shades, and through her leadership this past year, our kids’ ministry has grown back to its pre-covid capacity. Second, there’s Sara who’s not here because she just had a baby, and that’s also the reason she is stepping down from being an awesome youth leader, so she can focus on being an awesome mom. And Shades, she is a testimony of the Lord’s faithfulness in our midst. Sara came to us as a college freshman, was baptized in our midst, dated and married Alec, became a leader in ministry, and now has a growing family. Can there be a greater testimony to God’s faithfulness than allowing us to do life together like this? And thirdly, there is Brad and John-Mark. I’m only counting them as one because in October we recognized them together for over a decade of service at SVCC. Shades, that’s crazy! The faithful staff the Lord has blessed us with is a memorial stone, an Ebenezer to his faithfulness.

Finally, in 2023 did you see the Ebenezer of the body? That’s right, you are a testimony of God’s faithfulness in this place. Last year, you served around the world, throughout Birmingham, and you served one another. Whether on the ground in Poland working with Ukrainian refugees or hanging out in our kitchen making meals for anyone in the community or coming together to figure out how to get a family’s heater fixed and buying them a Christmas tree so they can fully celebrate the season… Shades, in all these ways and more, I have been blown away by the faithful love of the Lord on display through you. 

May all these things be more than moments from 2023, may they be memorials, reminders, not of our accomplishments, but of God’s faithfulness! He has provided all we’ve needed for the journey thus far, and he will provide all we need until the day we arrive at home with him. So, as the old hymn says, “Here I raise my ebenezer; hither by thy help I’ve come. And I hope, by thy good pleasure, safely to arrive at home.”

I love you all,

Pastor Jonathan

Man of Steel?

*Don’t worry…there are not that many movie spoilers below.

“Space Jesus…” That was the nickname my friend gave the man of steel as soon as we exited the theater at 3am on June 14. Yes, I was crazy enough to go see the movie at midnight, but that is beside the point. A conversation ensued among the five of us about all the Christ imagery used in the film.

Superman has always been a very “Jesus-esque” character, but there were several moments this seemed to not only rise to the surface…but blatantly jump off the screen. Here are just a few examples of what I’m talking about:

  • Man-of-steel-Christ-poseKal-el (Clark Kent/Superman) was born in a unique way on Krypton. It wasn’t a virgin birth, but the parallel is still there.
  • He was sent by his father to earth as a savior to bring hope.
  • He grew up in obscurity.
  • There was a scene in a church where Clark was talking to a priest and the stained glass Jesus behind him was practically sitting on his shoulder.
  • At one critical point in outer-space, Kal-el was told by his real father (Jor-el) that he must save the world and he began his flight back to earth in a slow-motion-explicitly-cruciform-shape.

I could keep on going, but it is clear that the film makers want us to catch the association they are making between their superman and Jesus. And why not? This association has long existed in the minds of comic book fans…including myself…that is until recently.

As the release date for man of steel approached and more and more trailers released…I found myself thinking a lot about why we like superheroes so much, and specifically about why superman has really fallen from the heights of his popularity throughout the years.

After all, the man of steel reboot itself has been marketed as an update of the superman mythos with a greater appeal to todays audiences. What makes superman different from the other characters we love and why the need for the makeover?

Many of you may not care or think that putting this much thought into a comic-based movie is a foolish waste of time, but I think within these questions we discover important truths about ourselves. I think I discover my desire to be my own savior.

Superheroes like batman, spider-man, the black-widow, the hulk, the x-men, etc. appeal to a wide audience, and the reason is because we find them easy to relate to due to their flaws. Each of these characters has faults or a dark-side. They are far from perfect and yet they still get to be the hero. This appeals to something deep inside me. I am able to put myself in their place and imagine that I am the one who saves the day.

I love a broken hero because that is the only type of hero I could ever be.

old-Superman-comic-cover-superman-84977_590_816The good ol’ man of steel is not like this. We find it difficult to relate with him because he is too perfect. He has every power, perfect character, perfect hair, and on and on. His only weakness has historically been rocks from his true hometown…again, not relatable.

In the truest sense, superman seems like a savior coming from the outside to rescue us. The only place for us in the superman mythos is to imagine ourselves as the one being rescued…we could never be the rescuer in the red cape.

I believe that is why the new Man of Steel movie really goes out of the way to connect Kal-el with humanity. In more or less words it is said that he needed to be “truly human” so  he could serve as a bridge between Kryptonians and humans. There is a much greater emphasis on his relationship with his earthly father, Jonathan Kent, than with Jor-el. Even the title of the film emphasizes his ability to identify with humanity…the first word is MAN.

Yes, he has amazing strength and abilities, but they want us to think of him as a MAN of steel. Here is a superman that we can hopefully identify with…a savior we can hopefully accept so that he can fly back to the heights of his former fame.

That’s all well and good for the world of comic book storytelling…but in reality…is this what we need? Do we need a MAN of steel?

We want so badly to save ourselves and our make-believe media keeps trying to tell a story where that is actually possible. We, humankind, can become the hero/heroines we need to be and, despite our character flaws, save the day. But is that truth? Can we become men/women of steel? Is that even what we need?

I believe we need just the opposite. I believe we have been given just the opposite in Jesus. When you really think about it…Jesus and Superman are not alike…they are actually completely different! And this is good news…because…

baby jesus in mangerWe don’t need a man of steel…we need a God of flesh.

God himself took on flesh. He could identify with us in every way, yet he was without sin. He stepped into this world not made of steel, but made of skin. He was tempted, he cried, he sweat, he bled…he died.

He took on our greatest enemies…the enemies within that corrupt, and the enemies without that kill. He took on sin, death, and the devil…and defeated them all by rising from the dead! He alone is our savior! The one who knows all our weaknesses for he was born, truly human, yet he was and is truly God.

We DO need a savior, not from the stars, but from among us. We need a savior who is one of us, but is not us. The good news of the Gospel is that we have been given one such savior…only one…Jesus Christ. He was not a man of steel…

He was and is the God of flesh.

*PS – I enjoyed the movie. Not the greatest film ever, but I thought it was worth seeing once in the theater.